Give Yourself a break!

Many times we find ourselves starring into the darkness believing that we are the total reason for our problems. Yes we create many of our own obstacles and problems in our life but we also have help in making the decision of which way we go with the input of others. We must own our decisions while realizing how we arrived at the point of having to choose. No one is on a solo journey in this life. It is a constant interaction with others. Those interactions present choices to be made. Too often we make them by believing one of three things: one: we are always the problem, two: someone else is always the problem, or three: it is just fate or luck. So, own your decisions but understand the people and circumstances which brought you to this point of decision making.